Focus

Yesterday i started writing, but i never finished writing on that topic... I kept the window open on my comp and left work with intentions to possibly finish it today. I just deleted everything I typed so I can write this one...

My older cousin used to refer to my dad as "the jack of all trades, master of none". It's very true! My dad has endless skills when it comes to EVERYTHING, but he is not one of them professionally. He's never focused on one thing solidly enough to master it.

I'm learning that foucsing on one thing at a time is 10 times more rewarding than focusing on multiple things at the same time. Yea it's cool to "kill 2 birds with 1 stone", but its better to get 1 thing perfect in multiple trys rather than multiple half ass things done at one time.

"You get out what you put in"

It goes the same way with people... You invest time in people every day! Best friends, distant friends, family,

acquaintances. You pick and choose who you focus on and your friends can say a lot about you. Relationships hold the same principal. If you're trying to start something, shouldn't you be focusing all your attention towards that one person? Dating requires you to divide your attention between the people you date.... doesn't seem too fair to me. Makes it sound like you're sharing! (Unless you're a swinger! haha, then I guess sharing is ok)

What I guess I'm getting at is the importance of focusing. My career, the people around me, my next future relationship, my life.... It's all stuff that mean a lot to me so why go at it half ass? 1 thing at a time. Make it perfect. I deserve what's best for me.

Focus!